Showing posts with label desi. Show all posts
Showing posts with label desi. Show all posts

Saturday, March 17, 2007

for the sake of the name



Friday night (3/16) I saw the Namesake at BAM. I'm not generally one for writing a movie review but this one struck a chord. So I can at least give it that much credit...it made me feel compelled to respond to it, even if just in my small unread blog-like way. Any chord. Most of the people I went with (who were mainly indo-American) didn't like the film...calling it a sell-out, cliché, and creatively defunct. I don't totally disagree but I do think that there is another side to consider.

The movie is based on a cliche theme. Bi-cultural, identity questioning, ABCDs. It was a popular theme (and a somewhat failed genre emerging in the late 1990's) that has passed its time. The ABCD experience has evolved...there are now 3rd and 4th generations popping up and those that have recently arrived from the motherland are coming to a "new" America....a place where, for the most part, people know what curry is, have seen an Indian woman in a sari and recognize the difference between American Indians and Indian Americans...(I'd like to emphasize FOR THE MOST PART..although maybe being born and raised on the East coast and living NYC has me jaded). But just because the theme is a more dated one, doesn't mean that movies, books, music, etc exploring this theme can't be fresh. In fact, I think that exploring these themes still do shed light on a topic that many people still don't understand. So, this is where my positive nod to the movie comes....the namesake is what it is. it explores a dated theme in a dated manner (although I wish it was explored in a fresh manner). It is the best ABCD movie that has been produced (on a large scale) to date (in comparison to American Desi, ABCD, etc etc). It isn't breathtaking, but maybe it's not meant to be. It lacks in strongly developing any characters and relationships, but maybe the America (read: white) audience that it was made for can't handle going too deep when dealing with a "foreign culture." 95% of the audience at BAM was non-Indian. When I went to see Mira Nair and Jhumpa Lahiri speak at the Barnes and Nobles in Union Square the week the movie opened, the audience was amazingly ethnically mixed...but then again, it was still predominantly white. And I don't say this to be negative, racist, etc...in fact, I think the opposite. I think that Nair and Lahiri have done a great job with illustrating a very standard immigrant experience to a larger mass-market audience....in a very standard way...again, it is what it is.

As far as the actual acting goes, I think that Tabu (Ashima) and Irrfan Khan (Ashoke) were true to their art, sincere and convincing. I appreciated (and actually wanted more of) the focus on Ashima (as opposed to the book which focuses on Gogol). It would have been more satisfying to see a deeper view of Ashima and Ashoke's relationship, which is so rich and meaningful. But they were both, hands-down, what makes this movie special and worth it.

Visually, the movie was well done..that is, of course, Nair's strong suit. She has that "slice-of-life" style that is visually engaging...her use of colors, framing and shot angles were captivating (sometimes, a few too many close ups of Kal Penn though)....and musically, Nitin Sawhney was amazing (as usual). I found the editing to be jumpy and it lacked a fluid thread. I realize that it's extremely challenging to boil down a 30 year old saga to 2 hours, which makes editing that much more important. I just think that there large chunks of missing time pieces or scenes that were cut too short...while at the same time, there were many scenes that were too long, dragged out and/or unnecessary.

So is it worth the $10 to go see this movie in the theater?..ABSOLUTELY...suppoort the brown people and their art, I say. For me, it the film wasn't the life-changing/inspiration story it had the potential to be...but it was entertaining and holds its ground as a higher-quality indo-America film...along the lines of an American romantic-comedy....

and there you have it. long, sorry, i know...

Saturday, February 10, 2007

$30 box of tic-tacs


girl #8
Originally uploaded by saritabhatt.

If you look closely at this picture. you'll see a box of tic-tacs on the table. that box of tics costed me $30...and i had to share them with 17 other guys. now that is crap. my lady friends and i went to a DESI speed dating event in the west village. brilliant. i attempted to purchase a wearable camera to document the event, but my last minute attempt was just too costly--about $600 for the camera that looks like a button on my shirt and the recording device.

there were 30 women and 17 guys. every 3 minutes the guys moved lockwise to the next awaiting damsel (myself especially) and initiated the routine "hi, my name is," "i work here," "i work hard and play hard." we women couldnt possibly afford to get up and do the actual moving from seat to seat because our hair would get tossled and lipstick smudged. it kind of reminded me of what i would imagine a 1920's brothel is a smokey second-rate city is like.

more than 50% of the guys lived and worked in Jersey with a questionable visa status. some were very nice and mildly pleasant to converse with. and some of the conversations were just plain painful. but that's to be expected, regardless of the demographic.

after each comment you circle a yes or no next to the name of the guy on your sheet (you can see the sheet and pen in the picture above). here what i did with my card:

----- Original Message ----
From: Flirteve NYC < flirteve@gmail.com>
To: saritabhatt@yahoo.com
Sent: Sunday, February 4, 2007 11:40:46 PM
Subject: speeddating matches...

hey sarita...

unfortunetely, we don't have your speeddating score card, and we wanted to send out the matches... did you turn it in to one of us? or are you not interested in anyone? please let me know as soon as possible so i can send out the matches...i hope you a had a good time at the event and we would love to hear your feedback...

~The Flirteve Team

best intro lines:
guy #1
him: go ahead, answer three questions for me
me: what 3 quetions..you haven't asked me anything

guy #2
him: what is the most imporant thing to you in a relationship?
me: what relationship?
him: this relationship?
me: but we're not in a relationship?
him: but if we were?
me: but we're not.

guy#3
him: what do you like to do outdoors?
me: [sexy wink]
him: very nice. have you been to the smokey bear mountain?
me: what?????

guy #4
him: where do you work?
me: the new york times
him: well that's a pretty decent place to work for a girl
me: i have to go to the bathroom

guy #5
him: i work at deutch bank
me: yeah, i thinki've heard of it. small little company right?
him: actually, its a very large bank [insert statistics here]
me: i know, i'm kidding.

also: my COWORKER was one of the girls and we are the only 2 brown girls in the ad dept and with thousands of brown girls in nyc what are the chances that we are both 2 of 20 girls there. a true highlight.

best part of the night: saw rhea pearlman (waitress from cheers) and
dr. mark greene from ER at the pizza place across the street that we
went to after the bar.

this was response to the actual flirteve company and then their response to me.:

On 2/5/07, Sarita Bhatt wrote:
Thanks for this follow up. I didn't hand in my card because I didn't circle yes for any of the people I met. While it was an interesting experience, I think that the demographic of people was not what I was expecting. Being an event in NY City, I think that there should be some cap on who is allowed to attend ( i.e. more than 50% of the people I met both live AND work in New Jersey. If I want to meet people who live in NJ, then I could easily attend an event there).

Sarita

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Date: Mon, 5 Feb 2007 15:32:40 -0500
From: "Flirteve NYC" Add to Address Book Add Mobile Alert
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To: "Sarita Bhatt"
Subject: Re: speeddating matches...
hey sarita...

that stinks that it was not what you expected... it's so hard to judge, it varies from time to time... sometimes we have a bunch that live in nyc... sometimes a bunch from long island and jersey... it's random people all the time so you should check it out again... no this not a shameless way for me to get you to another one of our events but being a single chick in nyc myself i can tell you each speeddating is different and a different mix of people... and like i tell all my other single friends you never know who will be there...

in any case... i hate to have an unhappy customer so if you would like to give it another try, it will be on flirteve... so just email me and let me know if you are interested and what event you are interested in and i will put you in the database...

have a great day
:)Anamika




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